Help!!

You can use something like Pravana Silver to add back the ash tones

I just know it will go green, and i know to add in violet. Just been looking at the Wella illumina range and 8/69 with some 7/81 whats everyone else thinking?xx *anyone*

Wella Illumina will be super harsh on your already lightened hair! If you absolutely have to use oxidative dyes use one that calls itself semi- or demi-permanent with a low volume peroxide (no stronger than 10vol), all you need is deposit, you don't need the lifting capabilities of permanent dyes like the Illumina range, especially if you were to use them again to refresh the colour. These dyes will still fade with each wash so there's no point in damaging hair further.

I've seen nice ashy results from diluted Nirvel ArtX grey on this forum, I have a tube myself and it seems to have a mauve tone to it, a warm-toned but still ashy colour.

Pravana Silver, or any of the other direct silver dyes are violet based, hence my suggestion.
More oxidative dye is a bad idea IMO.

I would suggest something like Majirel High Lift Ash+ (or Violet) by Loreal. It's a coloration product so if you're not willing to risk more damage to your hair maybe it's not the thing for you. But it could get you the light cool blonde you're looking for.

I would suggest something like Majirel High Lift Ash+ (or Violet) by Loreal. It's a coloration product so if you're not willing to risk more damage to your hair maybe it's not the thing for you. But it could get you the light cool blonde you're looking for.

Under absolutely no circumstances use a high lift colour on bleached hair. It WILL destroy it.