Have A Good Old Moan....

Thanks Glitter 🙂 A good sit down and talk is always the best thing to do, get it all out in the open xx

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Some people are sooooooo frustrating. You actually cant say anything right in their eyes. Trapped in ego land with all these stupid egos! GR

Ruby, liked. Pretty jewelry ^_^

Thank you 😀

Me too 🙂

Thanks 😀
I read on the other post that things are better today glitterpix, I'm glad you sorted it out 🙂

Thank you 🙂 I feel silly for getting so upset now!

Don't! I get upset over the stupidest things with my husband!

My boyfriend is really ill! Whilst I'm sad that he is ill, if he's not better by tomorrow I can't go visit him, which is annoying cos for the first time in ages we have two weekends in a row where we can see each other. Fingers crossed for a speedy recovery!

Thank you. Just marriage problems, we are going to try and work through stuff. It's mainly him taking me for granted really. Which is horrid, especially as we've only been married 6 months - but I think he's feeling a bit 'midlife crisis' and feeling in a personal rut and I think he's taking it out on me

Hopefully things will get better!

It will! Me and my hubby go through stages like that every year or so but we've been married for nearly 5 years now. You just have to talk it through and make sure you don't bottle stuff up because that's what eats away at a relationship 🙁 I hope it's all ok xxx  *hugs*

janineb it's pixie treasure on facebook 🙂 I'm just getting sick of all the sly snidy remarks  -r-

Call them on it. They think you don't know, let them know you do. It'll either make them own up or shut them up! Either way, doesn't sound like much of a friend. You have really lovely jewellery, so screw them.

Stupidly upset. I cold turkey-ed my medication a while ago and everything was going really well, the engagement put me on a massive high and I've honestly been feeling like my life is more in control than it's been for about 5 years. But my mother keeps continually putting me down and I feel awful now. My parents have always exhuded this sense that I'm not quite good enough, and it's pushing me to breaking point. Even when I managed to somehow score the highest mark in my department, she kept suggesting I should aim to do it again. I fluked getting such a high mark, there's no way in hell I can do it again without burning up, but seemingly that doesn't matter. She's criticised my relationship, my work ethic, my job, my diet (I'm vegan),  my social life, and it's all getting to be too much and I feel like it's pushing me back into a place I don't want to be in. When I didn't have a job, I wasn't trying hard enough and needed to get one. Now that I have one, I'm not spending enough time on my studies and need to rethink my work ethic. If I socialise at all, I'm not spending enough time on my course. If I spend my time on work and my course, I'm not getting the most out of my life and need to socialise. It sounds like such a petty thing to get hung up on, but I just feel so hopeless right now.

@Mouse, my parents are the same. I completely understand. I gotta tell you that you have to NOT care what they say otherwise you will just keep getting stressed and depressed. I started feeling much better after I moved out and i stay far (like in another country far) away from my parents.
I hope you will feel better :*

my mum was exactly the same, and honestly, it pushed me to dark places with my depression when I was at home. So I moved out at only 18.
She's still like it now so after we had a big row in the summer, I now only see her about once a month, and I don't call. It's the best solution for me.

Do you live at home? If not, I'd suggest doing what I do and distance yourself and just concentrate on yourself really. If you do live at home, just try not to listen to it all, or just tell her exactly how she's making you feel?

I hope you feel better soon, sending lots of hugs!

Mouse, I'm so sorry your mother makes you feel that way 🙁
I don't think her comments are justified at all, because from your posts, you always seem so focused on your studies and work etc. I, for one, admire you because you for managing to get good grades while working (I get the worst grades, and I'm in school, not uni, and I don't even have a job!) and having the discipline to follow through with a vegan diet.
So since your life was going so well before she made those comments, I hope you can focus on the positive aspects again soon, and don't let her put you down! Massive e-hugs x
(I apologize if this was completely useless or something, but I cannot keep my mouth shut when someone puts someone else down!)

My moan (seems stupid in comparison):
I've been thinking about studying educational theory when I finish school. My teacher doesn't think so. Keep in mind I had really good grades last year. Now I got my exam back, which was a 3- (pretty bad considering it's that 1-6 thing and I had a 1 last year!) and my grade for "Sonstige Mitarbeit" (how much you participate, whether you do your homework etc etc)...it's a 4. With the comment "I've never heard you say anything this year!" Hm yeah, that might be because you never call on me, teacher lady -.-

Thanks guys, it makes me feel a lot better. I actually left home at 17 for about a year because my parents and I had such a poor relationship which terminated in them packing my stuff into binbags and texting my OH to say that neither of us were welcome in the house. My other half actually took me in at the time, which has meant there's a constant tension between him and my parents. I'm 20 now and live about 100 miles away from them, so at least we're not in each others' faces all the time. It makes me feel really sad because I thought we were getting on really well, but I just feel like she's constantly criticising me and I don't know how I keep doing so much wrong. My OH thinks I should just ignore her comments and keep to myself, so I guess that's what I'll do for the time being! Thank you guys. :')