Have A Good Old Moan....

Poh, just try to remember that he's with you for a reason--because he likes YOU!  Try to trust that even if these other girls can't be trusted, he can.

Mindi, I'm sorry :(.  Perhaps he's doing it because he wants to have something that's just his?  If that makes sense ... like he knows it's something you guys can't share and he wants his own virtual space around it?

So you can't see his page?

I wouldn't worry too much Mindi, I mean, obviously it's upsetting, but men are strange creatures. Seriously for like a year my husband didn't even add me on facebook! I think they just like to feel a bit separate and yeah, have their own 'space' so to speak.

I wouldn't worry too much about these gym bunnies, he's married to you because he loves you 🙂 And you have a rocking body! You're not what I consider large at al

Regarding the porn "actress", tell him if it annoys or upsets you  xx

So you can't see his page?

I wouldn't worry too much Mindi, I mean, obviously it's upsetting, but men are strange creatures. Seriously for like a year my husband didn't even add me on facebook! I think they just like to feel a bit separate and yeah, have their own 'space' so to speak.

I wouldn't worry too much about these gym bunnies, he's married to you because he loves you 🙂 And you have a rocking body! You're not what I consider large at al

Regarding the p**n "actress", tell him if it annoys or upsets you  xx

I can still see his page.  I don't think he realised that even if he blocks me from following him, his entire profile is still public, and I can still see any public tweets he's sent and see who he's following.  I sent him a text asking him why he blocked me and if it's because there was something he didn't want me to see.  He said he blocked me the other day (when he was having this 'conversation' with the p**n 'actress') because he didn't want me to think he was getting up to anything.  I told him I didn't think he was then (he told me about it at the time), but I do now because blocking me suggests he has something to hide.  He said it was stupid to block me, but it wasn't his idea (he works with some really immature idiots) and he didn't think I'd notice.  Well I did notice.  And the damage is now done, he can't undo it. I told him that it's not the conversations with other women that's upset me, it's the fact that he blocked me which makes me think he's hiding something, and it's not that I don't trust him anymore, but it has upset me and that can't be taken back now.

Typical male, didnt think before acting......result.....hurt the one he loves!!
I think he probably blocked you to save hurting you by seeing the fact he was talking to a po*n star, even tho he had told you about the conversation. Men just dont think through their actions, till someone points out the consequences to them....have a good old talk about it,point out the fact that blocking you made it look suspicious and has totally hurt your feelings
Sending you a big hug Mindi  *hugs*

^^^ i agree tenfold with everything said above. 😉

I'm sorry Mindi. I guess it's "normal" for a guy when he talks to an attractive woman to sound flirty (by nature) but the blocking thing is not really normal. 🙁
The excuse he gave shows completely the opposite. He said he blocked you so you will not think that he is up to something but blocking you shows the opposite. I don't know him personally to justify whether he is being honest or not. But if he also talks with men as well then i guess you don't have anything to worry about.
Is it possible he wants to just feel some sort of reinsurance that he is still attractive to other women? We all get into this sometimes and we seek a bit of attention from other people.
In any way i hope this works out ok for you and that everything will be ok.
Much love Mindi :*

^ what the others have said, Mindi.
Would also like to add that you shouldn't get insecure about him talking to girls with gym bodies or p**n stars, just because they look different to you doesn't mean they look better.
You're smokin' and he clearly agrees since he married you!

My moan is that I slept in today by accident (you know when you turn off your alarm and next thing its hours later? And it means I've missed a lecture that I needed to go to so I'm annoyed with myself!

Men are silly.

I am also having husband related 'issues' at the moment. Probably too long winded to write it all up on here really though! He's not done anything terrible or upsetting as such, but he's being really unsupportive and selfish at the moment and it's driving me mad

Thanks ladies, I feel a bit better about it all now.  I've spoken to my husband, and basically, what happened went like this: husband has conversation on twitter with p**n 'actress' about weight training while at work.  Husband starts to worry that his tweets may be taken the wrong way.  Husband works with immature 19 year old idiot who says 'oh you can just block your wife on twitter if you don't want her to see it'.  Husband takes advice of immature 19 year old idiot, then completely forgets about blocking wife on twitter.  Husband tells wife at home about having a conversation with said p**n 'actress' on twitter.  Wife thinks nothing of it until two days later when wife discovers that husband blocked her on twitter.  Wife then gets upset about being blocked, as this suggests husband has something to hide. 

so the moral of the story really, is that 34 year old men should NEVER take the advice of immature 19 year old idiots who know nothing about women!

Glitter - I'm sorry you're also having husband 'issues'!  They can be very annoying at times!  But I think their trouble mainly is that they don't think about how things will be perceived before they act!

I really think that's what it is, they just don't think things through first lol

Heh, men are very silly! I'm glad everything is ok Mindi 🙂

So, my undiagnosed, untreated schizophrenic ex...

Has the most useless family in the world. He's missing again because his dad hit him and kicked him out for listening to music too loud, knowing full well that he's exhibiting severe psychological problems AND he has a court date in less than 2 weeks. His brothers can only look after him so much without it interfering with their lives. His mother is a high strung newlywed in Canada.

It's time for me to create a superhero persona and go to the bible belt and fight back. I've basically been working as a disability advocacy specialist for the past few years. I'm going to have to teach the police that you don't taser non-violent crazy people. And teach his dad that when his son is having paranoid delusions, you help him. You don't let him sit and rot until he annoys you, then smack him around and deprive him of shelter and safety.

Now, me and my candy colored hair need a superhero name...

  How about 'the pastel avenger'? 😀

  How about 'the pastel avenger'? 😀

This made me giggle ^^

The Pastel Avenger:  Fighting for civil liberties in all the backwards, violent corners of the globe!

I was going to go with Queen of the Universe, but this is more superhero-y. I'll keep QotU as my disguise...