Yup, if you mix your own toner you can always mix one the right strength to tone down the yellow. It won't be white blonde but you can tone it to a more neutral blonde.
I do want the end result to be a platinum baby blonde, not white but very light. could I tone it now in order to make it look nicer, then in 4-6 weeks after recovery time, bleach and tone again?
Yeah that's what you'll have to do, you've got a good start, a couple of bleach baths should get it light enough.
Your hair looks like it still has some orange tones in it so I'd recommend using a blue semi-permanent dye heavily diluted in conditioner to tone it until you can bleach again, ideally with at least a month between full bleaches and at least a week between bleach baths.